Handling Rejection with Grace: Lessons from 1 Peter for Theatre Artists
Rejection is something everyone involved in theatre—whether an actor, designer, stagehand, or director—will face at some point. Whether it’s not landing a part, not being selected for a specific role behind the scenes, or receiving critical feedback after a performance or production, rejection can feel personal and discouraging. It may even cause you to question your skills or passion. However, just as in life, rejection in theatre is a natural part of the creative process and growth. When approached with faith, we can learn to handle rejection with grace, using it as an opportunity for reflection and perseverance.
In 1 Peter 2:7-8 (NASB), we read, “This precious value, then, is for you who believe; but for those who disbelieve, ‘The stone which the builders rejected, this became the very cornerstone,’ and, ‘A stone of stumbling and a rock of offense.’” This passage reminds us that even Jesus was rejected by man, yet chosen by God for a greater purpose. The rejection He faced did not diminish His worth. Instead, it became the foundation upon which everything else was built.
As theatre artists, it’s easy to feel disheartened when we face rejection. Not getting a part or receiving less-than-stellar feedback can sting. But just like Jesus, our value isn’t defined by others’ opinions. We may not always get the role we hoped for, but that doesn’t mean we’re not talented or worthy. In fact, sometimes rejection is simply a stepping stone to something better.
Rejection Doesn’t Define Your Worth
The first lesson we can take from 1 Peter is that rejection does not define who we are. Jesus, though rejected by many, was still chosen by God. As a believer, you are chosen by God!
Within the theatre world, like life, is full of subjective decisions. Casting directors and producers are often looking for something very specific, and sometimes the perfect fit is about more than just talent—it could be about timing, appearance, or chemistry with the rest of the cast.
When you experience rejection, remember that it’s not the end of your journey. It’s just one part of a much larger story. Stay focused on the bigger picture and trust that there’s a role, performance, or opportunity out there that’s meant for you.
Rejection as a Path to Growth
The second lesson is that rejection can lead to growth. In 1 Peter 1:6-7 (NASB), we are told, “In this you greatly rejoice, even though now for a little while, if necessary, you have been distressed by various trials, so that the proof of your faith, being more precious than gold which perishes though tested by fire, may be found to result in praise, glory, and honor at the revelation of Jesus Christ.” Rejection, while difficult, can be a refining process. It helps us build resilience and humility. When we learn to accept rejection gracefully, we develop the strength to persevere through future challenges, both onstage and off.
As a theatre artist, use rejection as an opportunity to reflect, improve, and come back stronger. Take feedback as a tool for growth rather than a measure of failure. Each audition, performance, or critique is an opportunity to learn and refine your craft. Trust that God is shaping you through these experiences.
Trust the Bigger Picture
Finally, handling rejection with grace involves trusting that there is a bigger picture. 1 Peter 2:9 (NASB) reminds us, “But you are a chosen race, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, a people for God’s own possession.” You are chosen for a purpose far greater than any single role or production. Trust that God has a plan for your journey in theatre, and each step—whether success or setback—is part of that plan.
When you face rejection, lean into your faith. Remember that God’s approval is far more important than anyone else’s. Rejection may be difficult, but with faith and perseverance, you’ll find that it can lead you to unexpected opportunities and growth. So, keep your head high, trust in your God-given abilities, and know that you are chosen, just like the cornerstone rejected by man but precious in the eyes of God.